If you are considering abortion, you may be wondering whether you need to tell your partner. Legally, you are not required to notify him. However, if you’re not in danger, you may want to tell him for the future and health of your relationship, and to invite him to support you. He may want to help or be included in the pregnancy decision. He may surprise you and be supportive. By excluding him, you will never know.
Have you confirmed your pregnancy yet? Visit the Pregnancy Care Center of Rincon to receive confidential pregnancy services and discuss your options in a safe and caring environment. Schedule your no-cost appointment today.
When You May Want to Tell Him
If your relationship is respectful and supportive, telling your partner about your pregnancy and desire to abort will help both of you work through this situation together.
Keeping your pregnancy and potential decision a secret from your partner can add weight to your shoulders and break his trust if you finally decide to tell him. It can cause distance and jeopardize a previously healthy relationship.
Telling him will also give him an opportunity to provide emotional or practical support once he knows what you are going through.
You might be surprised by his reaction. Sometimes partners respond with concern or encouragement once they understand the situation. Sharing your thoughts can also help you process your feelings more clearly.
When You Should Not Tell Him
If your partner is emotionally or physically abusive, your safety must come first. You are not obligated to tell him.
If you ever feel afraid or unsure about how he will react, reach out for help. You can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800.799.SAFE (7233) for specialized support.
Get the Facts Before You Decide
Before making any pregnancy decision, confirm that you are pregnant and learn how far along you are. A medical-grade pregnancy test and ultrasound can provide this information and ensure your pregnancy is viable.
Pregnancy Care Center of Rincon offers these services at no cost and provides a supportive environment for discussing your options. Schedule your appointment today.
You’re also welcome to bring your partner with you for couples support.