When your partner begins urging you toward an abortion and you are not sure you want, you might question what to do next, especially when feeling overwhelmed.
Your partner’s reaction may come from worry about money, school, or career plans. He might even believe abortion will “fix” the situation quickly.
Abortion is a serious decision with risks and side effects. Slow down and consider all of the options and resources available to both of you.
At the Pregnancy Care Center of Rincon, our advocates offer free, confidential support so you can pause, breathe, and explore your next steps. Schedule an appointment to talk with someone today.
Creating Healthy Distance
If discussions with your partner feel tense or one-sided, you have the right to set boundaries. For example, you could say, “I understand you have strong feelings, but I need time to think without feeling pressured.”
Protecting your emotional well-being is not selfish. It’s a responsible step. Spend a few days journaling, walking outdoors, or confiding in a trusted friend who respects your need for space.
Spotting Red Flags
Sometimes persuasion crosses a line into control. Threats of ending a relationship, taking away financial help, or isolating you from friends and family are signs of coercion. Coercion is not love.
If you ever feel unsafe—physically or emotionally—reach out for help right away. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) offers 24/7 confidential assistance.
Exploring Your Full Range of Options
Pressure can cloud your judgment and make it hard to focus on what is truly best. Meeting with a trained advocate at the Pregnancy Care Center of Rincon gives you a calm, neutral space to discuss every option, including parenting and adoption. We’ll also help you understand the potential emotional and physical impacts of abortion.
Our staff can also connect you with resources such as housing assistance, counseling referrals, and ongoing support if you choose to continue the pregnancy.
Schedule your free, confidential appointment today to meet with a caring advocate who will respect your privacy and help you explore your options in a supportive environment.
FAQ:
Can my partner make me have an abortion?
No. Legally and ethically, the decision belongs to you. No one can force or threaten you into an abortion.
What if I’m afraid to share my decision?
If you worry about how your partner might react, put your safety first. Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) for immediate guidance, or speak to someone you trust.
Does the Pregnancy Care Center of Rincon provide abortions?
No. We do not perform or refer for abortions. However, we provide information on all your options so you can make an educated decision.